Question (paraphrased):
What is your opinion on pre-written prayers and responsive readings?
Answer:
While it may only be a two part question, I am going to answer it like a three part.
Part 1 - prayers that were written by the person praying
When I first started my ministry in Houston, the elders of the church were expected to pray before communion and offering each week. Most weeks, the elder who was praying that week would stand up and pull out a 3X5 index card where they had written a prayer out and they would just read their prayer in that typical, reading from a card, tone of voice. It often came across boring and insincere to me.
I questioned the sr. minister about why he allowed it to take place (which is actually a statement in regards to my ignorance of believing that it was the sr. minister's job to dictate every action within a church).
The answer he gave me is the answer that I have held by ever since. They could stand there and stammer around and worry about all of those people who are watching and listening or they could take the time prior to their "moment in the spotlight" and meticulously pour over every word that they wish to share with the Almighty God. The question was later posed to me, between those two options, which one is more reverent and reflects an awe for God?
Then, after the great religious answer, the non-spiritual answer was that it seemed better to have them write out these short prayers than distract everyone as they stumble through some quick quirky prayer.
Psalm 119 is a brilliant, albeit lengthy, prayer to God. But it was written as an acrostic (at least I think that is what you call it). The prayer starts with the first letter of the Hebrew alphabet, the second part of the prayer starts with the second letter of the Hebrew alphabet, and so on throughout every letter. This prayer was carefully crafted and yet God though so much of it that He chose to put it at the very center of the Psalms and the center of His book. The author may have carefully thought out, wrote and rewrote entire portions of the prayer, but in the end it is still a genuine prayer of hope, love, admiration, fear and angst toward God.
Part 2 - reading the prayers of others as though they are your own prayer
This is another idea that used to really bother me, until I started to actually read some of these prayers.
For example, there is the prayer of Francois Feacutenelon who said, "Lord, I know not what I ought to ask of Thee. Thou only knowest what I need; Thou lovest me better than I know how to love myself."
Or there is this prayer, usually attributed to Francis of Assisi, "Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love, where there is offence, pardon, where there is discord, unity, where there is doubt, faith, where there is error, truth, where there is despair, hope, where there is sadness, joy, where there is darkness, light. O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console, to be understood as to understand, to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive, it is in pardoning that we are pardoned, it is in dying that we are born to eternal life."
There are many others that I hold to (like the Jesus Prayer we discussed in class), but these are a few examples of prayer others have given that I am so moved by that I want to give them also. I may adapt them or modernize them, but I often pray parts of them because they were stated better than I can state them myself.
Part 3 - responsive readings
This one is pretty simple for me. Song of Songs is filled with responsive readings. The Psalms have been used as responsive readings for centuries, even before Jesus. It is hard to read Psalm 136 and not get the immediate idea of a responsive reading. I have no trouble with them and often prefer them because they can create a participatory dialogue of worship, not just following the band.
A few years ago I was in Grand Rapids, MI for a church conference and asked our waitress that night if she had heard of the church. She told us that she had and really enjoyed it. I went on to ask why, and her answer was that the services were so great and they use so many neat elements, like responsive readings. I was blown away, this college aged student then went on to tell how her church did not use things like responsive readings and so she felt so distant from the worship.